Friendship..

#Truth

Friendship can not be defined in one word

True friendship also doesn’t exist in just a few moments or memories, it lasts forever.

Through all the turmoil, all the tears, all the brokenness, and all the pain…true friends are always there.

Having an honest, true, and loyal best friend is extremely hard to come across, but when you do…don’t let them go.

I have found out in more than one way what it means to be a good friend..

First and foremost, listen.

If it wasn’t for the nights of me crying hysterically to my best friend without her having anything to say, driving for hours with just sappy love songs on, or even talking for an hour on the phone to my long distance friends…listening helps.

They are your FREE therapist.

Use them!! 🙂

Also, don’t be the friend that only wants a friend when you are sad.

If you want to be a good friend…you gotta be there for the good and the bad.

I have friends who don’t want anything to do with me unless they want or need something, or my advice.

Where were you when I was sad? And why don’t you ever give me advice?

Sometimes it’s hard to still be friends with people like that..

Many things go along with being the best friend you can be, but some things are unspoken.

Just like being in love…it’s different every time.

Not every friendship is the same, so don’t expect it to be.

And…every person can have more than one best friend.

Each friendship means something great to them, but doesn’t necessarily mean that one has to be more important than the other.

Jealously is not cool.

I have a couple people in my life who I call “Best friends”

Even though I love them all, each friendship means something different to me.

I have the friends who have been in my life since kindergarten, friends from high school, and friends from college.

Each one plays a special role in my life.

Friendship is not always the easiest thing, but it can definitely be fun.

I have done some of the dumbest things with my friends, but loved every second of it.

You realize how much you know about the law when you are with your best friends.

Having inside jokes and stories only you understand are the best.

Simplicity is the key to my heart.

The more simple the friend is…the better.

I have had some of the best nights of my life not doing much of anything.

Being able to laugh with and at each other is one of the best parts of friendship.

Sometimes just being able to be silent together is one of the best feelings when it comes to having a best friend; when you don’t need to talk about it because…they “already know”.

Friendship comes and friendship goes, but hold on to the ones who mean the most..

They will keep you alive and show you love in so many great ways.

“God made us bestfriends, because no mother could handle us as sisters” ❤

❤ Shay